What Our Baby Didn’t Need

What Our Baby Didn't Need

Parenting is probably the most sensitive subjects in our country and the most publicly judged. From what goes in their stomachs to how we decorate the nursery, every decision is criticized from even the most obscure angles. And when we start discussing what our sweet baby’s “need” it gets even more heated. You are taught to feel like less of a parent if you don’t provide everything for your child. That your little one will be at a disadvantage without light-up noisy toys or a mink changing table cover. But when it comes right down to it babies don’t care about these things. And more importantly – they don’t need them.

Now, by all means, if it’s important to you go for it. But don’t think less of yourself if you don’t. There are things babies do need. This post however is all of the things we didn’t buy in the first place for our Pudge, things that were gifted unnecessarily to us, and things we regretted buying.

Refusing to purchase things like this in the first place not only protects your financial security, it teaches your children a healthy relationship to material belongings, helps your family focus on experiences, and protects our planet from unnecessary consumption.

Diapering

  • Disposable diapers and wipes.
  • A diaper pail or liners.
  • Commercial diaper rash cream.
  • Baby powder. Use cornstarch instead.
  • Disposable cloth diaper liners (seriously defeats the purpose of cloth in the first place).
  • Changing table, pad and covers.
  • Portable changing wallet.

Bathing

  • Head shields.
  • Special bath toys.
  • Separate body wash and shampoo.
  • Bathrobe. Cute but not needed.
  • Special baby-sized towels. Save yourself some cash and get standard towels that will last several years.
  • Infant bath tub.
  • “Baby” wash cloths. Regular wash clothes or a soft loofah work fine.

Feeding

  • Nursing bras. I bought nursing tank tops for the same price and saved myself laundry and the cost of clothes I could even nurse in.
  • Pureed Baby foods. Check out Baby-Led Weaning instead.
  • Special baby snacks (stay away from yogurt drops – those things are loaded with added sugar!)
  • Special dishware for baby – I gave him a glass tea cup plate and tea spoon for silverware to practice with. But mostly he eats off a tray with his hands.
  • Bibs. We just got him naked for meals and wiped him down with a washcloth afterwards. The bib really didn’t protect any of his clothes.

Clothing

  • Sleep sacks. These can only be used at bedtime. Save yourself the work, money and time by getting footie pajamas instead. This way if you need to go anywhere you can easily strap your baby into a stroller or car seat without having to wake them up and change their clothes.
  • Shoes
  • Accessories

Gear

  • Bouncer/Rocker. Unnecessary and you can’t leave the room if your baby is in one (Babies have suffocated in them before – read the safety manual if you already have one. They’re really not that helpful).
  • Shopping cart cover
  • Jogging stroller
  • Special “diaper bag”. Get a regular bag that can be used for longer than 2 years of your life.
  • Bassinet. Just get the crib from the get-go. Get a convertible one, too.
  • Special infant car seat. A huge waste of money. Most parents use them longer than it’s safe too (my baby outgrew his by 4 months), and again you can’t leave the baby in them outside of the car so they don’t “help keep baby asleep” at all.
  • Play yard. Ours has been useful for when I’m vending at the farmer’s market but I never use it at home.

Bedtime

  • Crib mobile.
  • Crib bumper. Not safe until the baby is almost 9 months, at which point it’s not necessary.
  • Teething guards for the crib. Cribs have to meet strict safety standards – your baby won’t ingest anything dangerous.
  • Pillows. Babies can’t use them until about 9 months and the fire retardants in them make them undesirable even then. Your baby really won’t care.
  • Extra blankets (unless you don’t have easy access to a washing machine. Then you want LOTS of extras).
  • Crib skirt.
  • Noise machine. Put on the radio or a fan if it’s a big deal but we didn’t need to do anything special.

Playtime and Learning

  • Extra toys
  • Anything electronic or noisemaking. These things will just irritate you when you’ve had 3 hours of sleep and the same song has played 265 times over.
  • Exersaucer
  • Walker (my doctor actually told me these were dangerous)
  • Play gym

Safety and Healthcare

  • Gas drops

This is part three in raising a zero waste family.

Part One: The Zero Waste Baby

Part Two: What We Actually Needed for Baby

Part Three: What We Didn’t Need

What We Actually Needed for Baby: Zero Waste Style

What we really needed for baby

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Raising a baby requires a lot of crap. And if you go mainstream it requires an absurd amount of crap. Every child is different; every lifestyle, climate and laundry schedule are different too. But it is helpful as a new parent to see what other moms did.

Whether you’re a new mom or not, if you want to raise your child with a minimalist and zero waste attitude, this checklist is for you. Below you will find all the things we actually needed for our little Pudge’s first year, as we pursued a zero waste and minimalist lifestyle.

Keep in mind lifestyle differences as you read – I have full access to a washer and dryer, I breastfeed, Pudge comes to work with me so my pumping needs are limited, and I live in a spastic climate with extreme cold and hot weather.

Items in green were absolute necessities – everything else just made life easier.

Diapering

Washing Diapers

Washing cloth diapers in my portable washing machine.

  • Cloth Wipes. We have enough to fill 2 quart size mason jars because I’m paranoid about running out. This lasts 2- 4 days and is approximately 36 wipes per jar.
  • DIY cloth wipe solution. 
  • 30 reuseable cloth diaper liners/inserts.
  • 25 cloth diaper covers. Our Pudge had bad diarrhea from antibiotics so we would go through up to 20 a day.
  • Small jar with DIY diaper rash cream.
  • Cornstarch in a Shaker. Works just as good as baby powder and it’s a lot cheaper.
  • 2 small wet bags.
  • 2 large zippered wet bags.
  • Somewhere to wash things. If you don’t have washer/dryer hookups you can use the bucket method or buy a portable washer like this one and line-dry (Line-drying is better for cloth diapers anyways).
  • Portable wipes container for when you don’t want to haul a mason jar around.

Bathing

Proud to BreastfeedFeeding

I breastfeed. If you’re planning on formula feeding or doing a combination of the two this list will need alterations. If you have the choice, always breastfeed exclusively. Its better for you, your baby and the planet. And your wallet! But no matter how you do it, feeding your baby is the part that matters.

  • 2 glass bottles
  • Electric breast pump
  • 2 pumping tank tops
  • Bottle brush with nipple wand
  • Dishwasher bottle basket
  • Castille soap for washing bottles
  • 304 steel pot for sterilizing pumping supplies, bottles and pacifiers.
  • Re-useable milk storage.
  • Insulated cooler and ice packs for transporting milk.
  • Nursing pillow and washable cover.
  • Lasinoh cream for your nipples. I only really needed this the first month but some Mom’s will need it the whole time you nurse. 
  • Reuseable WATERPROOF nursing pads (if they’re not lined with waterproof material on the back you’ll leak right through them).
  • Clothes you can nurse in public in – stretchy T-shirts, loose sweaters and low tank tops work great and are cheap. Or get the amaaaazing nursing sweater I have.
  • Nursing cover (if you’re uncomfortable in public).
  • Prenatal vitamins for mom.

Moving on to solids between 4- 6 months, you will also need:

  • Whole foods – bananas, squash, etc.
  • Lunchbox for on the go.
  • Potato masher. I use it on things like beans and baked potatoes.
  • Teething bags (stuff it with frozen berries. Seriously, no orajel needed).
  • 4 Bibs

Bedtime

  • 3 Velcro swaddles (these saved my life – seriously. I wasn’t going to buy any but one was given to me and I loved them so much I bought two backups)
  • Two heavy blankets
  • Two medium blankets
  • Two light blankets
  • 6 receiving blankets (these double as burp rags)

Clothes (year one)

In the spirit of zero waste, buy as much of these used as possible. For when you can’t, I’ve provided links to organic cotton clothing that can be passed down until it’s ready to be composted.

  • 10 newborn onesies – 5 long sleeve, 5 short sleeve.
  • 2 newborn hats.
  • 10 newborn pairs of pants.
  • 2 newborn light zip up footie pajamas.
  • 2 newborn heavy zip up footie pajamas.
  • 20-40 pairs of 0-3 month socks (Dont waste money on newborn ones).
  • 2 pairs of 0-3 month booties (only if it’s really cold).
  • 0-3 month snowsuit (only if it’s really cold).
  • 10 0-3 month onesies – 5 long sleeve, 5 short sleeve.
  • 2 0-3 month hats.
  • 10 0-3 month pairs of pants.
  • 2 0-3 month light zip up footie pajamas.
  • 2 0-3 month heavy zip up footie pajamas.
  • 20-40 pairs of 3-6 month socks.
  • 2 pairs of 3-6 month booties (only if it’s really cold).
  • 3-6 month snowsuit (only if it’s really cold).
  • 8 3-6 month onesies – 4 long sleeve, 4 short sleeve.
  • 2 3-6 month hats.
  • 8 3-6 month pairs of pants.
  • 2 3-6 month light zip up footie pajamas.
  • 2 3-6 month heavy zip up footie pajamas.
  • 20-40 pairs of 6- 18 month socks.
  • 2 pairs of 6-18 month booties (only if it’s really cold).
  • 1 6- 9 month snowsuit (only if it’s really cold).
  • 8 6- 9 month onesies – 4 long sleeve, 4 short sleeve.
  • 2 6- 9 month hats.
  • 8 6- 9 month pairs of pants.
  • 2 6- 9 month light zip up footie pajamas.
  • 2 6- 9 month heavy zip up footie pajamas
  • 20-40 pairs of 18- 24 month socks.
  • 2 pairs of 18- 24 month booties (only if it’s really cold).
  • 1 9- 12 month snowsuit (only if it’s really cold).
  • 8 9- 12 month onesies – 4 long sleeve, 4 short sleeve.
  • 2 9- 12 month hats.
  • 8 9- 12 month pairs of pants.
  • 2 9- 12 month light zip up footie pajamas.
  • 2 9- 12 month heavy zip up footie pajamas
  • Dirty clothes basket
  • Baby safe stain remover
  • Baby/cloth diaper safe laundry soap
  • Chlorine-free bleach
  • Net bag for washing socks in (so your machine doesn’t eat them)

Gear

  • Convertible car seat
  • Stroller and rain shield
  • Car mirror. So you can see baby on long trips. Baby’s have suffocated in car seats before so I view this as a necessity.
  • Car window covers
  • Diaper bag (if you’re not using your purse)
  • Convertible crib. In the United States you are legally required to provide your baby an age appropriate bed with a frame. Even if you cosleep.
  • Highchair or other seating while eating device.
  • Somewhere to keep clothes off the floor; Baskets, bookshelves and dressers all work.
  • Boba wrap or baby carrier

Playtime/Learning

Minimalist Daycare Play AreaYour baby needs very little in this category, contrary to popular culture. My baby’s favorite toys are empty cereal boxes (plastic removed), rubber spatulas, coat hangers and an old Xbox controller that had the cord cut off. And in all honesty your baby will enjoy watching you and being involved in your tasks more than toys. I let him play with hangers and washcloths while I fold laundry. He plays with a wooden spoon and cheerios while I do dishes. And so on.

  • A blanket to lay down on the floor.
  • A separate blanket for outdoor play.
  • Hand-held rattle
  • Two stuffed toys (ours sing)
  • Foot rattles
  • Rings
  • Books to read (As many as you feel is appropriate)
  • Library card.
  • Supplies for sensory play like finger paints, cookie cutters, etc.

Misc.

  • Pacifiers and clips. These have been shown to reduce the risk of SID’s, so use them until about a year and then ween off of them.
  • Nail clippers
  • Hairbrush
  • Missing persons kit
  • Waterproof/fireproof safe for important documents.
  • Special swim diaper for the local pool.

Baby Health and Safety

  • Forehead thermometer.
  • Lavender vaporub for colds.
  • Nasal aspirator (there are different sizes – get all of them).
  • Syringe for medications/vitamins.
  • Infant tylenol.
  • Peppermint tea (for belly aches).
  • Pedialyte.
  • Grape juice for constipation.
  • Baby-proofing supplies – fridge latches, cabinet latches, oven and range guards, gates for stair cases, toilet seat locks, etc.
  • Fire alarm in every room. Gas alarm if you need it.
  • Fire extinguisher.
  • Sunscreen.
  • Baby monitor

I seriously recommend getting hold of your local Child Welfare and asking for a home inspection checklist. There are required items on there a lot parents (good normal parents) don’t know about. Such as having a certain distance between kitchen appliances and the sink.

What did your baby need?

This is part two of a series on raising a zero waste family.

Part One: The Zero Waste Baby

Part Two: What We Actually Needed for Baby

Part Three: What We Didn’t Need

Preparing for Parenthood: The Zero Waste Baby

Zero Waste Baby NeedsI’m having a baby in December, and as our lifestyle has transitioned to zero waste and minimalist living, it’s just as important for that lifestyle to continue with us as our family changes. This is my first child, but I cared for my younger siblings for years as well as did daycare for a variety of families.

There are lots of cool gadgets out there for babies and young children. But very little of it is necessary, and some of it is straight up ridiculous.

Given my family’s tight budget and our commitment to reduce consumption in all areas of our lives, we’re sticking with the minimum. Lots of this has been gifted to us by family and upon our baby shower we’re probably going to receive more. I’ve also perused Facebook classifieds, craigslist and Freecycle for many free items. I encourage you to do this if you have the time or if you’re on a tight budget.

Household Changes

  • Water filter for sink
  • Filtering shower head and bath faucet
  • Waterproof mattress cover (for my mattress)
  • Cotton sheets (for my mattress)
  • Outlet covers
  • Dog bed (because we’re co-sleeping in the beginning and the dog can’t sleep on the bed anymore…)
  • CO and radon detector
  • Fabric shower curtain
  • If you haven’t already switched, get all the plastic out of your kitchen and switch to:
    • Bamboo cutting boards
    • Cast iron or 304 Steel cookware
    • Ceramic or cast iron bakeware

Baby Bedding

  • Crib or convertible bassinet (Convertible is better!!) with matress
  • Cotton sheets for crib (x2)
  • Homemade crib quilt
  • Light receiving blankets (x4)

Bathtime

  • Cotton undyed towels (x2)
  • Cotton undyed wash cloths (x8)
  • Baby grooming kit
    • Soft hair brush
    • Infant nail clippers
    • Snot sucker
  • Baby mild castille soap
  • Gentle baby lotion (you can make your own if you’re ambitious)

Diaper Changing

  • 20 cloth diapers
  • Homemade diaper rash balm
  • Diaper pins (steel; x4 sets)
  • Reuseable wipes, in a homemade solution, in a reuseable container
  • Waterproof diaper covers (x8)
  • Dirty diaper container and reusable liner (x2)

Clothes

  • Onesies (x16)
  • Socks or booties (x8)
  • Coming home outfit <3
  • Swimsuit
  • Scratch-proof mittens
  • A hat
  • leggings/pants (x16)
  • Pajamas (Light; x8)
  • Pajamas (Heavy; x8)
  • Swaddle wrap (x2)
  • Dirty clothes hamper

Feeding

  • Burp clothes (x8)
  • Glass bottles (x3)
  • Bottle brush
  • Breast pump
  • Freezer storage for pumped milk
  • Bibs (x3)
  • Highchair or seat with support

Misc. Needs

  • Moby wrap carrier (make this myself)
  • Stroller
  • Car seat
  • “Diaper Bag” (A bag that accommodates my normal purse items and baby needs when travelling)
  • Baby thermometer (I suggest the pacifier ones)
  • Baby book (if you’re nerdy like that…)
  • Developmentally appropriate toys (not very many are necessary – my niece’s favorite toy is a red rubber spatula)
  • Books (because even infants enjoy stories)
  • Baby monitor (for when you’re getting it on in the living room while the baby snoozes 😉 )

Parent Needs

  • Nursing bras (x8)
  • Nursing cover (make this myself)
  • Reuseable nursing pads (x16)
  • Scheduled dates (and gift cards if you can afford it) for after baby

I hope this was helpful! If I’ve left anything out, please let me know. Also it’s worth mentioning that I won’t be stocking up ahead of time on clothing and we have a washer and dryer. If you don’t have access to a washer and dryer and aren’t planning on hand-washing poopy diapers this list might be very different for you.

What did you need for your first baby?

This is part one in a series on raising Zero Waste children.

Part One: The Zero Waste Baby

Part Two: What We Actually Needed for Baby

Part Three: What We Didn’t Need